She called me at work today to ask what I decided about selling the camper. I told her I wanted to talk to her about it. I told her we didn't have to call them back till tonight. She asked what I was going to do with the money. I said it would pay off one bill for an extra $230 a month. This doesn't pay for an appartment anyway.

She assumed that I would leave if this happened. What I told her before she was going to see OM was, I don't know if I can stay here if you choose not to be with me when you get back.

Now, I think I should stay till the divorce is final(witch neither of us has seen a layer 'I think'). And she hasn't said I want a divorse either.

Why should she get her cake and eat it too.

Like my counselor said "She hasn't had any consequences for her actions."

Any suggestions

Me 37 W 37
D21 D17 D12 S8
grandparents 7/07 boy
Married 16 yrs last June 07
Bomb dropped 4/07

"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt