Yeah I know you don't want it to be her loss. I feel the same way about my H. I love him very much. I feel like maybe he's starting to chip some of his wall away but who knows. He could also turn it around at the drop of a hat.

You just keep bettering yourself for you and hopefully your W will realize she doesn't want to loose you and your family after all. Either way you'll be better for it. I think I need to practice what I'm preaching. lol

W: 33
H: 37
SS: 14
S: 7
S: 3
married 08/09/97
Seperated 11/02 05/07
H moved back 8/26/07