I think you should stay with her in the Condo tonight, she knows your work times, so take this as an opportunity. Don't say anything on the sleeping arrangements until you have to, just play it by ear and see how the evening goes. Maybe make the offer of sleeping on the couch just prior to going to bed, especially if she seems uncomfortable. But I do think it will be a wait and see type of thing. Try and stay away from any R talk, just be relaxed and enjoy her company. I agree with WAW, you can't put a time line on this as it will back them into a corner and it could back fire, she unfortunately is the one who is calling the shots and you just have to follow her lead. But like anything there is room to keeping assessing and change the plans if need be. Best of luck with tonight! I will be thinking of you
Me - 44 H - 44 M - 19yrs together - 23yrs D16 S8 EA/PA - Bomb Oct20/06 Jan 8/07 Feb 01/07 Jul 15/07 H still @ home Recovered!
