Had to read your thread cuz Hope Floats is one of my favorite cheesy movies and Big Girls Don't Cry by Fergie is one of my favorite songs right now.
I've been going through this nighmare for about a year now and have accepted and let go of a lot of things as well. Reading your post gives me hope that H will wake up eventually. I hope for this the most, even if we are not together in the end...
I also knew that gaining weight would be an indication that I was doing better. My guy friend told me I looked like a POW a few months back.
Will be checking in on your thread to see what happens with your H.
M: 33 MLC/WAH: 33 M 6 yrs, together 12 2 kids: 5,2 Bomb #1: 4/06 - "I don't love you anymore", almost S Bomb #2: 7/06 - EA/PA since late 05, kicked H out/S Bomb #3: 1/07 - "No longer have any feelings for you. It's over.", living w/OW, no talk of D
