If you know for fact and certain that your WAS is currently involved with OM/OW, why continue having any hope for a reconcilliation?
Easy. Because many (I think most, actually) marriages survive infidelity. Have you read Michele's chapter on infidelity recently. And there are many many success stories on here where there was an OP. So the simple answer is an OP or an A doesn't mean you can't save your M. It doesn't mean it is hopeless.
Originally Posted By: NDDT
I guess in my situation, if it does ever come to light I will most likely be in that last catagory. If there ever was to be any chance of reconcilliation then there had better been serious owning up, and some serious apoligizing, before I could even consider trusting again. Which most likely would not take place
I agree this needs to happen, but it isn't likely to happen until the WAS decides not to walk away and instead to reinvest in the M. So out those needs on the backburner too.
You still in the same spot G?
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
