I have trouble with this because I mix happiness in with validation. For example compare the two situiations below:
Situation #1: He is the ultimate Deida man, he achieves his purpose, which is to be a CEO of his own company, but he is married to a fridgid woman.
Situation #2: Same man as above, but he finds his soulmate, a woman that is highly desirous of him.
Obviously, situation #2 is FAR preferable to situation #1. So how is a desirous woman NOT the ultimate validation? And would man in situation #1 really feel good about what he did?
