Sorry to hear that you have been through the ringer. Glad you are talking to an IC and trying to take care of your mental health. The IC had good advice about acknowleding your W's need for space, but I wouldn't add any time lines either. Like everyone here none of this happened in a day and it will probably take just as long to fix it as it did to break it, maybe longer since this is an uphill journey.
Hang in there Stew. Sending some good vibes your way.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
