Yep, agreeing w/ you there. After having 3 boys in the time that I did, I can say "amen" to wanting sleep over sex and that's where my M got off the sex track big time. I didn't want to be having sex just to be having sex, I wanted to enjoy it too and that wasn't happening. But on the other hand, I still should have been taking H's needs into consideration and maybe, had I done that more often, we would have gotten back on track sooner than we did.
Me: 38 H: 35 S4, S5, S10 Bomb 01/07 Wanted D - nothing would change his mind Numerous A's prior to D bomb; EA prior/during D bomb Piecing 04/07 Deployed for a year 05/07 Still Piecing 2010 M 11 yrs 05/10