Afraid husband might slip into character, the cowardly, fearful type who'd rather slink away, "buy" his way out of marriage and hope he can live with himself afterwards. Life in denial.
Cowgirl here has already realized she needs to pull herself up by her own bootstraps. And what good boots they are . . . ..
Wow, my H sounds a lot like yours. I thought he was a tough guy. He never backed down. In reality, he is a coward. He actually up and left me and our horse farm that we built from the ground up. He ran to the area where the OW lived as fast as he possibly could, so he didn't have to deal with how he screwed up his life. He definately went backwards, and I am left to pick up the pieces and maintain our farm. It's a rough life, but we will get through this.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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