How do you know that 180s are working? Maybe I am sweating the big stuff too much and missing the little stuff.
At the moment, offers of help are met with resistance, then a little later gratefully received.
Gave W a hug this morning, more for me than for her, not sure if it was returned. Then had to phone her on a matter and she seemed happy on the phone.
Coming up to the holiday season and we are sharing the looking after the children (by necessity), but will only be 1 hour away from home). Hopefully this will give her some space to think things through fully and allow her to see me in a different light.
I also read the articles on this site and am sorely tempted to show them to her, expecially the one about forgiveness (I think she is struggling with this).
I am trying as hard as possible to be her best friend and not crowding her - hope its working.
