Don't feel guilty. What he thinks and writes is up to him. I feel sorry for his W if he is trying to instigate things with others, poor girl.
You have done nothing wrong, go make yourself a nice cuppa.
It is 8:30pm over here. DD is having a sleep over at a friends. W is on a romantic holiday with OM. I am sitting here having a chai tea (hooked on the stuff).
And I am copying all my CD's onto my new IPOD video. I am up to 1600 songs, 4.5 days worth of listening and have about a third of my collection to go.
Again, don't feel guilty, you really didn't do anything wrong.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."