I know what you mean regarding EA's. I am getting a lot of support from my female friends and am always mindful of the risk that an EA may develop.
It is good that you nipped it in the bud. What time is it over there?
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
