I admire you for putting your dear ones first. It matters to stand by your H's family, and attend the funeral. The OW will be ashamed - not you. Do not react. Remember, she is invisible. Tears are okay since its a funeral. Its okay tobe angry, but do not show it. There is a time and place to express it. For now, remain poised and strong. As detailed in Mich's book, Divorce Remedy, do the Last Resort. When your H calls, sound upbeat. Sometimes, you can end the conversation too. Shake the dice a little. Also, do something new for you. Try a new hairdo, pursue a hobby, be a humanitarian, take a new class. Avoid arguments for now. At least, do it for the kids. Show how classy you are. You will gain more respect. He may need to miss you to appreciate you. Keep your golden heart. Things will improve. Hold on tight. You deserve it!!!!
