I do not know what is best in that sitch but I remember reading that the road to physical separation needs to be avoided, of course unless there is abuse. Try to keep him close without pressure. I do not know what you should do if he acts like a jerk. Remember, that a gorgeous girl catches his eye, a witty girl keeps his attention, but a sympathetic girl keeps him for life. That is a quote from another marriage book, not DB.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."