Do I buy a house? What about sex?

[Trixi]

We were single parents when we met and yes, we were pretty young parents.

I think he is trying to recapture some of his youth. He is VERY attractive and probably doesn't want to 'miss out' on any opportunities. I am cute and we make a very cute couple (as many many people have told us), but I am not drop dead gorgeous.

One thing that is so baffling about he and I, is that when we are at a karaoke bar we quasi-frequent, people have said that they are jealous of us. And my husband says to me "Of course, they're jealous; they can tell how much we geniunely like and love and respect each other." Plus, we're fairly affectionate when we are out. He always holds my hand, gives me kisses, etc. Well, I should say he did those things up until 4 days ago.

I don't know if he'll actually end up being in a band or not. Based on his comment from January (re:cheating), it was really hard for me to get excited when he recently announced how he really thought he should "pursue" his music. But I didn't stop him. I offer critques when he sings (if he asks) I compliment the new songs he is writing.... who knows. I have to admit that I was concerned about him getting into the music business for the very reasons that you wrote. I had hoped I was being stereotypical in my thoughts. Guess not.

Before I head up to bed--
his pillows are still in the bedroom; I never mentioned the guest bedroom being ready(door is closed); I am getting tired. Do I go and tell him about his choice? Just leave it be and if he comes to bed to remove the pillows let him know that he doesn't have to use the couch?