Please tell me that it does not matter where they sleep once they have moved out. They could have a bachelor pad, sleep at their parents', stay at a friends' or new lovers'. Tell me it does not matter as long as they have decided to move out. Then why does it drive me nuts? My H has little to no money for a rental so he is couch surfing but he keeps his things between our house and his aunt's. She calls me to see if he is with me at night. No. "Well, he is not here either." Great. Thanks for letting me know that my H is sleeping at some mystery place and lying about it. Just great. Why does he lie about it? Is he ashamed? Should he be ashamed? Should I tell him I know he is lying the next time he says he is sleeping at his aunt's? Does it even matter? I mean once he gets an apartment he is completely free, right? AAArrrgggh. I guess the hardest thing is that a trial separation is turning into a divorce and the wheels are set in motion and it does not seem to be slowing down.
Last edited by mkultra; 07/10/0706:14 AM.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
