I will not help her get a divorce, she can do it. She called me back tonight and ripped into me about having her go thru a living hell for 10 years and that it is my fault this has all happened. She actually said the words that I have believed for awhile. Guess I know her better than I thought.
789, have you read Stop Your Divorce by Homer? Your perception of things is making this very hard on yourself. Why do you want your W back. Before things can turn around, you need to know why you want he back and then you can begin to work on getting her back. You need to reject her cold ways in order to receive her warm ways. You can't be a door mat. I am not trying to be mean, I am sure that you are a great man, it is time to man up.
Maybe read David Deida - Way of Superior Man
OneWish's Story
"We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them."
