I think it has been about 50/50 regarding advice. I try to steer away from any talk but it is inevitable. People can read it on my face. One thing my friend said still rings in my ears. "He is not the man you married." I know people grow and change but he is absolutely detaching himself to get me to move on. It seems cruel but it is actually working. I am getting closer to moving on and letting go. Is there some book that is antiDB? How is it that he knows how to be so strong and steadfast in his maneuvers to stay apart? He states his mantra over and over. "ILYBINILWY and you need to move one. It is not about you. Nothing is about you. I hope we can still be friends." These are NOT my H words. I know he got them from another source. No way would he ever talk like that.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
