Do I buy a house? What about sex?

[mkultra]

Hmm, sorry if I am bad with the math but did y'all have kids early? Is he trying to get back to his youth? Now, he wants to get his music career going after the kids are gone? I have worked and dated with a lot of musicians. It is such a tough sitch since you are actually made to feel like the OW and the band comes first. It is a difficult sitch since the biz is pretty brutal and youth oriented. I tried to be supportive and sexy but it gets shallow and the intimacy becomes solely based on sexual intimacy. Plus, men in bands, this is a gross generalization, expect their egos to be stroked constantly. I am sure this is true of many people in MLC mode but people on stage get high from it and then they yearn for it. My H also works in promoting music and we used to tease the way the kids wore their hair and clothes, etc. Now he is so engrossed in the biz he looks like the very people he mocked. Classic MLC.