Atlas -- just caught up on you. You are doing great (despite a little blow to the PMA - to be expected, but sounds like you've bounced back already, and lots of positives in your sitch. Keep it up. And you got good input from GD, Dustin and WC.

Originally Posted By: Atlas
My W told me that each night S cries to sleep asking for me. I'm so torn up about it. I have asked a few times to have a good night call with him, but she won't. If I call at night, which I have stopped, she sends it to VM and I just say I was calling to tell S goodnight.


When was this discussed? This is too bad. Would she be open to discussing it again? I assume you painted it as being for the boy.

Also, on her backing out of the family fun center, are you familiar with the castle/picnic analogy. Sounds like a classic example of that dynamic.

Keep up the good work,
Nomopo


M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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