Just my 2 cents, I NEVER talked bad to my girls about their birthmom. (first marriage). I let her show to them how she really is. It's not hard. The WAS does a good job of making themselve look bad. My girls now 22 & 25 don't want anything to do with their birth mom. THEIR CHOICE.
I'm not saying you are its just makes ya feel good when They made the desicion
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know