Living with my WAW 3

[Nomopo]

SD - caught up on your weekend. Good stuff and good journaling.

At some point, I am just going to have to put down an ultimatum, but for now I am sticking with the Do Nothing strategy where our R is concerned and focusing on living my life as best I can.

When do you think you will have to do that? What do you think your timing is? I'm concerned if you don't think about it now and set a draft timeline anyway, you may find yourself at some (emotional) point thinking "ah ha, this would be a good time."

Therefore, one of my goals is to just state what I am doing and let anyone who wants to join do so!

Love this. You've mentioned it before.

I agreed with Dave initially about the R talk, but you explained your thinking in a logical way and it's your show.

I also like all of your 180s mixed in with the Do Nothing strategy, although rather than full 180s they may fall under the category of Do Something Different. I wouldn't say the show of affection is a full on 180, but rather an experiement of doing something different. May be semantics.

Just being an open, unwaivering, fearless, loving soul

I like this. Have you been loving so far? Seems like your do nothing is more indifferent than loving, but I realize you are contemplating a change.

That's it! Keep it up! I like your search for solutions much better than the 100% Do Nothing. Your W doesn't strike me a s capable of stepping up like the Do Nothing is designed to encourage/foster.

Nomopo