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I did put our camper up for sale w/out her full concent. If I sold it and paid off one bill I could maybe get an appartment.
Then I think I'm staying here till we are divoeced(hopefully not) and sell the house witch neither of us can afford alone.

Actually someone came to look at it tonight I told them I couldn't sell it till I spoke with my wife. She is out with the girls tonight, her best friend moved out of state last year and is back for a short visit. My best friend passed away last year 50, I know I would be talking to him about this, well i guess i still do talk to him.


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Originally Posted By: light switch
She is out with the girls tonight, her best friend moved out of state last year and is back for a short visit.


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this is what My W told me when she spent the weekend with the OM, Sorry but ya brougt back memories


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Very true


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Her family was down about two weeks ago. We were supposed to go with them to SD our favorite camping spot with our campers. She made up some excuse and canceled SD. They came and camped at our house one night and at our park the next. By the time they went home, my mother-in-law thought something was up. Like my wife was sick or something. They called when they got home and asked again if something was wrong and if I would tell if there was. I didn't tell, I REALLY wanted to though.


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Well, ya did the right thing because it would not have helped matters.


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Sorry about the memorys.
I do believe her this time. I heard her talking to her friends about this and saw her friend at noon when I came home to sleep for 15min(not sleeping well at night).

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Well...be it as it may.....you don't KNOW for sure....read some of the other threads on here....not trying to persuade you in any fashion but don't believe everything that is said.......


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I did notice she didnt where her ring. and the girlfriend that mooved away has direct ties to my work(her mother-in-law). My place of work is a huge rumermill of witch I do not partisipate.
She doesn't want her distant friend to know. I think.

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Yeah, well, that is the start of it......don't let it bother you though....and don't give in to asking her about it either.


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