switch.

I know what you mean. It would be so easy to tell the family what my W has done. But.... That would be the end. There would be no hope then. I even thought of threaten to tell but then if that changed her mind she would not be changing because she wanted to, It would be because of the threat. I don't want that either. I want her to want to stay. Otherwise we would just be delaying the inevitable. We have to be the ones to keep their

Secret to save our families.

I don't know your sitch but I do know with mine sooner or later if things do "go south". The family and freinds will know why.
I will NOT take the secret to my death bed.
Husband

Last edited by husband; 07/10/07 03:16 AM.
And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know