IThink they don't think about it because: 1. They are on a "high". They are so caught up in what they are doing in the present they have forgotten the past. 2. They know we will take care of the kids.
Matilda, I have to agree with what H said earlier in my thread. My H is at the point that he thinks there was nothing good about our marriage and he has yet to say he is sorry for anything. He said I've talked to people and they said at first things might be the same and then they would go back to the old way. I'm so glad that he listens to all of those "professionals". This is the man that when I mentioned counseling he said it was just a bunch of bullsh*t. I know when I was talking to him about the girls it just went in one ear and out the other. I'm sure he thinks I don't know what I'm talking about.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
