I'll be better TOMORROW! Generally I am ok. The future will be brighter.....I just have to get past the yucky stuff in between! You know how that is, FA! And YOU are indeed an inspiration about finding happiness after the dust settles.
He keeps saying if I keep acting "this way" we won't be able to stay friends.
"I'd like to introduce you to my ex-wife, friend, and personal doormat! Bimbo, this is Doormat; Doormat, Bimbo. Now we can ALL be friends. Isn't this great?!"
How much is his friendship worth? $150,000 plus $750/month? $50,000 lump-sum? How about $0.02?
First here is a hug for you, (((Matilda))), 'cuz I know this SUCKS! But I think you will be much better served by being angry right now rather than hurt.
What is it about these aliens that think they are worthy of being anyone's friend with the way they are acting? I am convinced that is just a ploy to keep a hurt spouse on the line until they get what they think they want.
Be strong and protect yourself and your DD. You are in my prayers.
Me 54 DS19 and DS17 Married 06/1989 Divorced 01/2011
H told me once that he hopes we'll always be close if we D. When I think about that, it makes me angry. I'm willing to do what I need to do to save my M, but if it doesn't work, why would I want to be "close" with him after all the lying, cheating, cowardice, etc.?
