It is funny that my W was still head over heals in love with me 12 months ago, and could not help but tell me and put it in cards, and tell me how much I understood her and how she feared losing me and wanting to stay together for ever.
My H was the exact same way and it was actually only weeks before he started his A. It is very scary to see things change that fast. I don't think I will ever feel 100% safe in a relationship again. I could understand a failed marriage after years of troubles, but this is totally different. I often wonder if it is just a character flaw in my H that caused him to deal with life's challenges in this way, or if we all are more likely to cheat than we want to believe.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
