Do I buy a house? What about sex?

[SuperDad]

If only I *knew* what the plan is.
He doesn't seem to want to talk any further about the details.

Hi Agent99,
Remember

Believe none of what you hear and less than 1/2 of what you see.

It does not matter anyway what he says! Have you re-read DR recently? If not, do it! If so,

Are you starting with a beginners mind? Really?

Have you set short term, solution oriented goals?

Do these goals included GAL elements that are JUST FOR YOU?!

I see that you are very focused on him and his actions. For a while, just forget about him and ask yourself: "What am I all about, what is the path in life that will make me happy?"

I have in the past 4 months been really internally focused and have (lovingly) detached from my W's MLC and other issues. This has been the most freeing experience of my life and I am now really just getting to the point where I can apply some of the DBing principles.

Hope this helps a bit anyway,
SD