True....but don't beat yourself up about that....he is just saying and doing the things you weren't. Learn from it and don't forget it. Use this knowledge later on down the line.
They say that a second marriage with the same person without divorcing is better than the first. Why? Because you both have learned from your mistakes and that what you have learned can be incorporated into this "new" marriage. Doing things, saying the right things....COMMUNICATION....all come into play on the "new" relationship.