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Thanks for the tip. I'll try to chase it down.

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My MIL is reading "The Peacegiver", maybe I'll have to "drop" the other book of there too. She usually passes them along to W. Is that too blunt?

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Heh, heh, heh...certainly can't hurt to try. ;\)


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Hey, no harm in trying! \:\)


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
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It's amazing how the same info from two different people can be received quite differently. It's worth a shot though.

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Didn't make the buy yet, but it is on my short list of things to do. Some days I really wonder who it is I share a bed with. Some days it's feeling like were finding our way back to old pastures. I recently had the chance to talk to a D veteran who gave me a few compliments on how I am handling things. This person definately put a few things in perspective and if nothing else built up my resolve. I really needed that.

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Well things seem to be moving in a good direction. The problem is I would feel more comfortable if W was to sit with me and say, "I am committed, let's work together", it would feel a lot better than just sitting waiting for the other shoe to fall. This sitting in limbo really sucks.

But I need to be grateful for the positive steps that do seem to be taking place.

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I hear ya brother. If only life came with guarantees. \:\) Wait, there is one: stay on the straight and narrow path and do the best you can and it will all work for your good.


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Hi Phoenix! I hear ya .... I have also waited for my H to come forward and talk to me about things, but nada, so far.

I am glad to read of a positive direction for you, and hope it continues.

Take care. \:\)


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Stay focused Phoenix. Keep your eyes on that light on the horizon.
Chin up, heels down.


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