Aww ((((((Matty)))))), I'm sorry it's sounds like your day was as equally upsetting as mine. I want so bad to stop hurting. I keep telling myself if God brings us to it, he will bring us through it. Our H's behavior is so similar. They are both so worried about their own happiness that they stop to realize what they have done to their own families. You have gone above and beyond, try to take care of your needs and daughter's.
Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Agreed Matty....look at you reg date.....it was a long haul and now that being mad is starting to set in.....maybe....just maybe....things just might turn around.
Thanks, FA and Yoyo. I do believe I can truly say I have tried my best (except for maybe the housecleaning part!). H has always been materialistic and self centered. Now I have to think of myself first and that is a new concept!!!
When someone asks for evidence before denying the accusation, they are guilty of something. Then they can calibrate the excuse or denial based upon the evidence.
So true, Mike! He was rather dumb to charge it on our joint account....or he thinks I'm dumb. He did say he joined but quit already. Ha, ha. I checked and his photo is still there. (No, I didn't pretend to be someone else.....just did a scan of the photos).
It really shouldn't matter......but I am having trouble trusting what he says so why should I believe him about financial settlements??? He keeps saying if I keep acting "this way" we won't be able to stay friends. I know it will never be the same between us anyway!
Agreed Matty....look at you reg date.....it was a long haul and now that being mad is starting to set in.....maybe....just maybe....things just might turn around.
FA--Turn around, how???? Really waltzing towards acceptance?
