We've had such talks before. I've talked about how boring things have gotten in the bedroom, and she makes an effort to change ... for a while. Then things settle into the same old rut again.
Goes with the territory. Sometimes people need a few tries to make a change stick.
In the meantime you can't make her change... you can change yourself and she might respond to those changes. Or she might not. Anyway, it looks to me like she isn't attracted to you. That's a problem that you can fix... scout around this board for more on that. Fixing it should keep you busy, and it keeps you busy on problems that you can solve and keeps your mind away from the hopeless task of changing someone else.
a fine and enviable madness, this delusion that all questions have answers, and nothing is beyond the reach of a strong left arm.
