True.....everyone needs fixing....none is perfect and without open communication...how will we fix what is broken? There are a lot of people on these boards that are so defensive in their failing marriage that they do not want to admit that THEY are most likely the biggest problem....but they don't see it like that. I realized my faults and by then....too little too late....but for me it was good to find this out and my and ex divorcing.

It's good to work on ones self....everyone needs to at some point in time....


Man who walks with BIG stick!