if he doesnt pay the mortgage, thats when you file legal separation.
that's when you have to start thinking of putting the house up for sale.

yeah, it's a lot of work.
sorry you may be stuck with it.
but dont file anything because you're worried about what "might" happen. Have a plan for contingencies like this.. and if the event happens, then follow the plan.
Meanwhile.. once you've made the plan.. stop worring about it. know that you are covered.


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle