She went to a campground about 30 mile from our town and took pictures of it for him. I know cause d11 asked me where these were from I said i didn't know. On her way home 5 mile from campground her throttle cable broke. She was stranded on side of road. After she hung up on him she called me. I went to work, got trailer, and rescued her. Later that night she looked upset in backyard so i asked whats a mater. She said something about 'men'. Then elaberated that since he couldn't help her he proceeded to get drunk. I thought this was good. She continued as nothing happened. that was about a month ago.
Me 37 W 37 D21 D17 D12 S8 grandparents 7/07 boy Married 16 yrs last June 07 Bomb dropped 4/07
"Do what you feel in your heart to be right-for you'll be criticized anyway. You'll be damned if you do, and damned if you don't", Eleanor Roosevelt
True.....everyone needs fixing....none is perfect and without open communication...how will we fix what is broken? There are a lot of people on these boards that are so defensive in their failing marriage that they do not want to admit that THEY are most likely the biggest problem....but they don't see it like that. I realized my faults and by then....too little too late....but for me it was good to find this out and my and ex divorcing.
It's good to work on ones self....everyone needs to at some point in time....
