Dude...to me, it sounds like you have a chance with your wife. It'll take some hard work so be prepared for it. At least she is making some positive comments to you...little hints of what you may NOT have done in the past....like the phone pic.
Having cheated on my ex mmmaaaaaaannnnnnnnnyyyyyyy moons ago, I can tell you already know, the "newness" of someone else is overwhelming. She may be getting the high from it right now because this OM says and probably shows (via email) things that you have not in the past. It has boiled done to your wife being bored in your marriage and the fact that you have cheated so why not her turn.
Work with the books say and post here to get somemore answers from past cheaters....most of this you should remember.....remeber what you said and did for that other person YOU messed with and that is EXACTLY what the OM is doing.
