I don't know about your H, but my W has never been able to communicate to me, and let things fester inside. I just hope that she can open up more with whoever she ends up with, and not make the same mistakes.
Same here...My H actually told me that OW understands him and that I didn't meet his needs. I asked what needs have I not met? His answer was that I should just know, it's not the same if he has to tell me. I didn't know that when I said my vows, I signed up to be a mind reader. I should keep a list of all the stupid things he has said to me in the last 8 months. I might get a real laugh some day. I think that it is wishful thinking to think that your W or my H is going to change in their next relationship. They both decided that it is everyone else's fault why they aren't happy. They don't even know where to start to improve themselves let alone put others needs first.
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