1. the unknown issue(s) that caused him to make that decision in 2001
2. an MLC.
I think you have largely addressed #1, by losing that weight. but I feel there's more to it.
The issue re 2001- what I tried to describe was that I was miserable to be around. He was disappointed in me. I wasn't a good wife/partner. He just doesn't know WHAT he needs to be happy.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
