My W told me she had no "self worth" for the last 12 months. The OM catered for that.
I don't know about your H, but my W has never been able to communicate to me, and let things fester inside. I just hope that she can open up more with whoever she ends up with, and not make the same mistakes.
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
