I know this probably won't make you guys feel any better, but my H has done the same thing to me. The OW is inferior to me in all regards. Maybe our spouses find people inferior to them, so they feel better about themselves. At least that is what I think my H did. Just remember, you guys were willing to give your W's a second chance, they weren't willing to take it. The best thing you can do is hang your head high, and know that you did everything you could to try and save your marriage, but in the end it takes two.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
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