Thanks buddy. I think I have to stop with the "What If's".
The funny thing is, that after finding out about OM (from her cousin, appearance, personality etc), this guy will not meet the needs that she said I neglected.
Everything she has brought up re failings, he will struggle with. Along with the other things that he will not measure up to.
He is very careful with his money (she says that she is not into material things), but if you have a look at her jewellry, shoes, clothes and houshold items, it is like living with Imelda Marcos (especially her boot fetish, every shade and shape, around 58 pairs).
Neither of them can cook, so it will be toasted sandwiches for dinner most nights. Has an average job, average looks, short, looks 10 years older than me (even though he is 11 years younger). The only thing they have in common is kick boxing and rock climbing.
The complete opposite of me (something she prided on when we were together, and was very jealous and over protective of).
Anyway, I don't know why I had to put the above in my post.........
But it sounds like you are coping well brother (in regards to your sitch), which is really good to hear.
All the best mate,
AndyV M38 W36 D7 M 13 years Together 17 years W wants D mid Dec 06 (ring off) W wants separation early Jan 07 (she backdated to Oct 06) EA revealed end March 07 (Nov 06 W first meeting with OM) Hallmark moment "I care for you but am no longer in love with you."
