Howdy, I don't get to post much and wanted to vent. My H and I have not ML all this year - not once. I would settle for once every other 2 weeks but can't even get that.
I've been just trying to make myself happy - getting involved with my kids, life, etc.
We talk about this every once in a while. It's been going on for 12 years now but was never this bad. My H is 52 going on 80. All he wants to do is sit on the porch and talk ab out other things(like his 89 y/o mom does when she comes to punish (I mean visit) us. I am brimming with resentment at the moment!
What's the problem? ED - but he won't do anything about it. His father had the same problem - he didn't touch his mom for 25 years (!!!) She had daughters and told them the problem. I don't - I have sons and no friends to talk about this problem. They all complain that their husbands won't leave them alone!
Anyway, H had his testosterone checked - it's 100 points TOO LOW and he doesn't think it needs to be treated. Then when he forgets to take his blood pressure medicine he's at salute (if you know what I mean) so what do I tell him - get the doctor to change his blood pressure meds. No, he says, it's finally normal again. He just won't do anything about the problem. When I insist he gets very offended so I just simmer. Right now I'm out of town without him and bummed.
