I have read through your thread and in my opinion things are too easy for him.
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On Saturday night he "went to a friends" and didn't arrive back home until 11am Sunday.
This is unfortunately a warning sign , my W did this , told me stayed with F friend etc but was with OM at the time.
You need to change you. Be that Sassier woman he wants but cut off the sexual contact with him ( for more than one reason as well ). Start doing stuff by yourself , move him out to the spare room or move yourself.
