Wait a minute--what D papers? From 6 months ago--and he finally got them back with the changes?
Exactly, way back in February, he was supposed to get them changed but he was buying time trying to convince me that he deserved more. I refused and then he bought himself some more time by talking about coming home and trying work on things in April and May. Then on Father's Day, I told him it was over and he agreed to getting the papers changed, but then after I laid into him at the graduation party when he driving OW's car, he threatened that he wasn't going to get them changed. I just don't know what to think anymore.
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Good for you not answering the phone. (btw, have you gotten a new cell yet, so he can't monitor your calls?)
It is a total 180 for me not to drop everything to talk to him. No new cell yet, but I still have been talking to who I want, just not on the cell. He can't monitor everything from 3 hours away. I'm working on the new cell.
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Go ahead and call him in an hour or so, whenever you're ready. If he asks him what you did this weekend, just say you're keeping busy. If he persists, you can change the subject by asking him what he and OW did this weekend.
I'll probably try to call him back tonight, but he will be probably be with OW, so I'm sure he won't answer. I would love to put him on the spot about him and OW's weekend, but I am going to leave that leaf unturned. If he asks me, I'll just say that I went crazy. Whenever I used to ask him what he was doing, he would say going crazy. All's fair in love and war, right?
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