Okay, kids, CeMar grumbles a lot, and I get tired of it, too, but he does have a valid point. CeMar is just having a tough time getting his wife to find her 'desire,' beyond just mutual masturbation. And having been in that position before myself, it really is very unsatisfying, even if you DO have an orgasm.
In his own way, Cades, CeMar is encouraging you to continue your exploration, to push yourself, and to continue having sex. I found, at least with my bf, that the more sex I have with him, the more sex I want... because we are having really good sex. If they sex were... eh... then, I probably wouldn't want to have as much sex.
But when the sex HAS BEEN... eh... and both people decide to really work at having better sex... the only way to do that... is to have sex.
I've given CeMar a solid plan to grab his wife's attention. I think he thinks I am pulling his chain..., as he won't respond to me, I don't know. If he were to ask me questions about it, I'd be happy to elaborate. He hasn't. So I am waiting. If he doesn't want to do it, no skin off my nose.
But back to the point. CeMar HAS read quite a few books, he's done his research. I hope he reads the book Mrs. NOP recommended.
