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[waw1978]

I wouldn't have taken the flower & card as overstepping. As long as it was really meant to be from the children and they were the only ones who signed it. I think its very thoughtful esp since she has been sick for several weeks. As long as you didn't have an ulterior motives or expectations, I think it was a great idea.

I think I will ask H about letting me have the second night tickets. If he says no then I might not go. I did get sitter already so I guess I am covered either way.

PS: We are all lost but at least a few of us have this site and others to help guide us through the bumps. I will admit though that every decent day I have around H he thinks all is dandy. Even though we continue to have the "it doesn't change things" talks. Its very frustrating. I really hope the MC can get him to read DR. If not, I don't know if he will ever get it!

Its very sad really. Two steps forward and four steps back is the only way I can describe our situation right now. I give a little then he pushes. I don't know if me moving out for good will finally get us over the hump. I know from the LBS POV it doesn't seem productive but we need to get out of this cycle...