I agree, it does depend on the man. However, the flip side is that in Agent 99's sitch by continuing to have sex, her H feels he is having his cake and eating it. Withdrawl of sex is pretty powerful either way. He will certainly miss it if you do.
If my wife gave me some intimacy at the moment I would melt, but at the same time I can completely empathsize why nothing is happening. I am just really wary she'll just have sex with someone else - that really would be a devastating bomb knowing who I am.
Me 36 W 37 Bomb (Easter 07) Sep (WAW July 07) "It's over" (end Oct 07) T10.5 years, M2 (before bomb)
