No, don't be sorry for feeling that way. That is a common feeling from so many people who know her and cannot understand what her problem is.
BTW, do you feel I should be there when she tells the kids about the filing for a divorce? I do. I think the kids need someone there that is stable and supportive of them.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God