Do I buy a house? What about sex?

[Dom R]

heh.. i just posted on MLC, that some person's spouse was probably not having an MLC.

now in here, I'm thinking maybe your husband IS having an MLC


"dont know if want to be married".. "pursuing his music"...
that seems to be MLC to me.
note: he didnt say "dont care about you". just not sure if he wants to be *married*.



I dont think that things "being awkward" in the morning, means that it was a mistake to be together again.
I think that perhaps it was an opportunity to correct a mistake.

personally, my gut says let him stay in the bed with you, and keep working on making that a positive thing for him to stay in.

he might flipflop on what he says, on what he is planning to do with his life.
but meanwhile, he may stay in the bed with you every night, i'm guessing :-)

perhaps, if you both support his efforts to "find himself", but also make being with you an open and warm place to be.. he will realize that he can be who he wants to be.. while still remaining married to you.

hang in there.