You are very young, but how good it is to learn that you can only control you and not H, at such a young age. You will be even better in the next R. None of us expected to be where we are. I sure didn't sign up for the sitch I found myself in, at 46/47. Life is what it is, and we just have to do our best.
I met my present H when I was 27 after going through a 3 year, abusive M to my first H. We got married when I was 28, and celebrated our 21st anniversary in March. So, you see, one can never plan too much, but just take the opportunities as they come, and make the most of life.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
